I am an African & American

I stumbled upon this post on Facebook and I thought I would share because it was beautifully written and I hope my fellow Africans will agree with Moji.

“My name is is Moji Akinde, and I am an African from Nigeria. And I am American. And I am black. And I am African-American. 

I am baffled that, in light of the murders of innocent black lives, a disturbingly large number of my fellow African brethren refuse to identify and empathize with being African-American. We are of the rhetoric that African-Americans could somehow avoid being racially profiled, targeted and killed by simply altering the way they dress, talk, act and live. We believe that if only black people would say their “Please” and “Thank Yous,” if only they wore a 3-piece suit to bed, if only they didn’t speak unless spoken to, if only they didn’t drink or smoke, if only. . .

We tell them to “just go to school” but refuse to acknowledge the bravery of little Ruby Bridges, the first black student to attend an all-white school post segregation in 1960.

We tell them to “just get a job,” yet we forget that we walked the roads paved by Ms. Rosa Parks, whose courage inspired the civil rights movement, which led to the Equal Employment Opportunity Act of 1972. This enabled all of us to secure reasonable jobs and gave us the ability to send monthly money transfers to our loved ones back home.

We tell them to “just stay out of jail,” yet we forget that it was African-Americans like Dr. King, Ralph Abernathy, and Fannie Lou Hamer who spent time in jail, with hopes that one day we would not be unjustly beaten or persecuted simply for the color of our skin.

We say “they have no African home training” but forget that Amadou Diallo was a 23-year-old immigrant from Guinea who had only lived in New York for 3 years when 19 of the 41 shots fired at him killed him. His African home training did not save him.

We say “they are always fighting,” yet we forget that Abner Louima, a trained electrician from Haiti working as a security guard in Brooklyn, was breaking up a fight when he was assaulted and sodomized by NYPD officers.

My African people, blinded by an inexplicable superiority complex, fail to see that we are no different from African-Americans, whose ancestors (and our sisters and brothers) broke down walls of oppression and built roads to liberation so that we African immigrants may enter this country of our own free will, not forcefully stuffed in the bottom of a boat. And because we did not sail 7,000+ miles in a ships’ hull, we think that we are exempt from racism, prejudice, injustice, harm and in more frequent cases than necessary, death, based solely on our Africanness.

We believe that racism is and can be influenced by ones’ accents, affluence and accolades. We delude ourselves in thinking that the racist man only need take one look at the nice camouflage we’ve bought ourselves with our nice money, at the nice department store, in our nice neighborhood and see that we are not like “those people.”

Almost all Africans living in the Unites States know someone who dreams of the day they too will be in the “land of opportunity.” We all know of the horror stories, the challenges and obstacles that our African family members go through just to obtain entry into the United States. Because we fight so hard to get to America, many of us feel that African-Americans take their citizenship for granted, and we come to resent them. However, their centuries of struggles for a more fair and just America should dispel that myth. We have to stand with them as they continue to fight against injustice. We are the literal definition of African-American, and their struggle is our struggle too.

If we ignore this fight, we risk waking up one day to our son being the next Tamir Rice. He will not have an African accent because he was born and raised in America. He will speak English as a first language with that Chicago, New York or Houston drawl. He will not have that “African home training,” and he will tell his friends he’s African-American because it is true. He might talk back to his parents. He might talk back to his teachers. He might skip class. He might play loud music or stand on a corner with his friends. He might do something silly like play with a toy gun or buy some snacks at the convenience store. And because of the color of his skin, it is possible he could be killed. With what narrative would you justify his death? The forces that we fight against respect no shade of black or brown. They will kill ‘Tunde’ as quickly as they will kill ‘Tyrone.’”

Moji Akinde is an event planner & hospitality professional, who writes poetry, talks loudly about social issues and models in between. She can be found  online at facebook.com/mojiakinde

Peace Corps Recruitment Event

Its been a while since I blogged – a year to be precise, but a friend encouraged me today so I decided to start back-up again.

Some months ago, I had the opportunity to go back to my Alma Mater, McDaniel College, to talk about Peace Corps and help recruit new candidates. One of the school magazine Editor asked me about my visit and it was publish in the magazine.

Enjoy!

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This story can also be viewed on page 8 in The Hill Magazine: Sharing a Passion for Peace Corps

P.S. Ideas for my blog are most welcomed, what would you like to know? What do you want me to write about?

Please help a Vulnerable Orphan

Humble appeal for Charles….

Charles Amanyire lost both of his parents to HIV/AIDS over 9 yrs ago and the family abandoned him and his brother on top of harassing them. TOCI (Twerwaneho Orphans Community Initiative), based in Western Uganda, has been supporting him and his brother since 2006.

He is very intelligent and smart in class. Due to his good performance RPCV Yemi has supported him in a nursing school but the cost of tuition is so high.

We request friends to help us raise $783 dollars to enable him to enroll in his 2nd semester of his first year at Fort Portal Nursing School in Western, Uganda.  Please help send Charles Amanyire back to school and help him attain a brighter future.

For more information about Charles or TOCI, please check out our Facebook site at: https://www.facebook.com/twerwaneho

Charles using his Nursing Skills for the benefit of his Orphaned Community

Charles using his Nursing Skills for the benefit of his Orphaned Community

Charles in his Nursing Uniform

Charles in his Nursing Uniform

I wish…

I wish I could tell you all about a wonderful project that I did,

I wish I could tell you how many people came to my event,

I wish I could tell you that I started a life-changing program here in Uganda,

I wish I had a lot to show for my 20months in Uganda but alas…

I feel small, incompetent, invaluable, lazy, useless…what am I doing here?

 

I remember when I was going to visit home in July 2012; I was praying and hoping that no one will ask me that dreadful question, “what are you doing in Uganda?” That question gave me anxiety and panic attack 1 month prior to going home. How was I supposed to answer that when I feel inadequate? What am I doing in Uganda? Why am I here?

Truth be told, I have gain more than I could have ever given to the people here in Uganda. I have always being someone that is always doing something, achieving something, creating something, but here…I was told two days ago that maybe my time here in Uganda is to learn how to be and not how to do.

Yes, I have achieved some things here in Uganda but in the greater scheme of things, it seems so little compare to what I have gained back. I have had some growth in personal development that I do not think I would have ever receive if I was in the States. I just wish the rest my time here in Uganda will be more memorable and end well.

Mom’s visit, Christmas and New Year

I was glad that my mom was able to come to Uganda even if it was only for 4 days (Dec. 15-19). Glad she was able to see another African country aside from our home, Nigeria. She and I had a great time with my friends, both PCVs and non-PCVs. I definitely gave her a PCV experience – walking through villages and towns, taking local buses, eating local food, attending local events, etc. She told me she really like Uganda and wish she had more time here but glad she came. ImageImage

She and I traveled to Nigeria for Christmas and New Year. It was our first time spending the holidays there since we migrated in 1999 and it was fabulous! Lots and lots of family reunion, sharing stories, and of course eating good food – oh I miss the food there. I’m surprise to see how developed Nigeria has become since I last visited in 2009 – paved roads, bridges, nice hotels everywhere, etc. It sure was good to be home and I realized how proud I was to be a Nigerian – yes the country still have a lot of issues but there is no place like home. There were some family members I hadn’t seen since my grandfather’s burial in 1994 so it was nice seeing them again. It was also sad to leave cause I wasn’t sure when next I will see them again and for the first time since all my visits to Nigeria, I actually cried when I was leaving which says a lot. In short, it was a great visit. Image

(L-R) Sister and Cousins.

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(L-R) Sister, Grandma, and Me

LLU article about me

MAY 17, 2012

LLU graduate begins Peace Corps service in Uganda

Kadijat Olayemi Oladiran, M.P.H., graduate of the Loma Linda University School of Public Health, has begun her 27-month service
as a Peace Corps volunteer.

Ms. Oladiran departed for Uganda April 24 to begin pre-service training as a community health Peace Corps volunteer. When Ms.
Oladiran graduates from volunteer training, she will assist local health organizations as they develop and implement public health
programs.

Ms. Oladiran graduated from Loma Linda University with a master’s degree in public health in 2011.
According to a Peace Corps press release, when asked about what motivated her to join the Peace Corps, Ms. Oladiran said she was
attracted to the aspect of service, the opportunity to learn more about her profession and the opportunity to learn about another
culture.

During her first three months of service, Ms. Oladiran will live with a host family in Uganda to become fully immersed in the
country’s language and culture. After aquiring the language and cultural skills necessary to assist her community, Ms. Oladiran will
be sworn into service and be assigned to a community in Uganda, where she will live and work for two years with the local people.
Upon completion of her Peace Corps service, Ms. Oladiran hopes to pursue a doctorate in public health and health systems and
work for the World Health Organization or another non-governmental organization.

More than 1,170 Peace Corps volunteers have served in Uganda since the program was established in 1964. Currently, 179
volunteers serve in Uganda.

According to Katelyn Lowery, Peace Corps coordinator, the School of Public Health now has had 20 graduates go on to serve in the
Peace Corps, and three students are currently serving in the Peace Corps as part of the school’s Master’s International Program,
which includes their service as field practicum for their degrees.

This story has been updated to include the number of Peace Corps volunteers from the School of Public Health.

© 2012 Loma Linda University